I haven't had much time to update the post lately, but have been reminded by a few readers that I have failed to introduce our new arrival, leaving some in the dark regarding our final decision on names and labor/delivery details.
I labored on and off for four days, trying for a natural delivery, hoping not to have another c-section. But, the baby never descended, which led my doctor to to fear the cord was wrapped around the baby preventing him from making his debut, despite heavy contractions (he turned out to be right, Gavin ad the cord wrapped around his neck). On April 15, Nate and I packed our bags for the final time (we had been in and out of the maternity ward for three days) and headed to the American Hospital of Paris for an overnight stay to insure I fasted before the scheduled c-section the next morning. At 7am they began to prep me for surgery, which was uncomfortable in that the French do not respect the idea of modesty in hospital situations.
I was taken to pre-op, a stainless steel room which operated like an assembly line for those scheduled for surgery. Once I entered the operating room I was greeted by my anaesthesiologist who, in accordance with French law, I had met with previously to insure my candidacy for anaesthesia. I remember loving that part of my prior c-section, but this time I felt the needle go in, which sent me into a total panic attack and a bit of hyper-ventilation, which was exacerbated by the fact that I had a terrible head cold. They used morphine, and while I am not sure of the true side effects, that stuff made me almost entirely out of it. I vaguely remember details after the morphine: First, a nurse asking me, in French, if my last name was the family name for the baby, which it is not, so I had to spell out the last name-again in French, and was very proud of my drug induce capacity with the French language. Second, Nate entering the room, rubbing my head to calm me down, and then asking me if I was ok or if I FELT it, which freaked me out and we are certain I then passed out. Third, a discussion of my snoring by the doctors and my husband. That's right, I fell asleep while on the operating table. Fourth, the doctor lowering the curtain to show me Gavin. I was so out of it that I lifted my head enough to see his lower body only, so I only saw his feet and the umbilical cord. Finally, I remember him screaming, and screaming, and screaming to which I thought-- "Fantastic, he isn't a morning person!!"
From that point, I was sent to a recovery area for two hours. As I tried to wake up, I was uncontrollably itchy. Another side effect of the morphine. This isn't what is used for epidurals in the States, is it? I then was wheeled to my room, where after what I would say was another hour I finally held my baby. Nate had been with him in the nursery while I was in the recovery room.
Immediately, we tried to come up with a name for him. Under French law we had only 72 hours to register him with the local Mairie. We tried calling him Henry. It just wasn't happening. William was nice, and it seemed to work all right, but we weren't feeling the love. And I was over Axel. Finally, the night before we had to register him, Nate asked "How about Gavin?" It was a name we both wanted to use before we knew Ruby was going to be a girl, but had not mentioned for some reason through out this pregnancy. It was perfect.
Ruby was infatuated from the first time she met him. For her, I believe, it was truly love at first sight. She was delighted with this baby, showering him with lots of kisses and begging to hold him.
He sleeps 4-5 hours every night, rarely complains about anything, and makes us feel like our little family is finally complete.


