Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Movin' on up...


We've tried to claim that we're the same down to earth people we've always been, and that nearly two years of life in Paris has not made us all uppity and elitist. Sina just tonight provided ample proof to the contrary. She was telling me about how she would make entire meals in college out of Triscuits and a can of E-Z Cheese. Hadn't even tasted so much as a nice Gouda before the age of 21. This tale came just a few minutes after she chided me for not properly slicing the block of Basque sheep cheese (that's fromage de brebis for you frencho-phones out there) I bought at an outdoor market the other day in a little country village near here. She was still eating it on Triscuits, but that's only because our neighborhood bakery had quit selling baguettes for the evening...

Behold, the reason sheep were invented:

Monday, March 10, 2008

Disney Princesses: Follow-up Post

Many of you have already seen these ads, some of you have not. But, when I received this month's edition of Vanity Fair, I was thrilled with the timeliness of the Disney ads that were featured: celebrity recreations of both Jasmine and Pocahontas. As I mentioned I always took it as a compliment when I got the "You look like Jasmine" comment, and this ad featuring my celebrity girl crush of nearly 10 years solidified that belief. But, a Latina as an Arabian/Hindi/Persian princess further adds to my generic ethnicity issues with the Disney branding. But whatever, doesn't JLo look fantastic. I think she and Marc Anthony should remake "A Whole New World". I would pay $1 for it on iTunes for sure!


And here is Jessica Biel as Pocahontas. I looked it up on imdb.com and apparently, way back she has Choctaw ancestors. But in the end, she is pretty much a Whitey McWhiterson.

Saturday, March 08, 2008

Thursday, March 06, 2008

Let's Hear it for the Boy

Over the last eight months we have deliberated baby names. If we were having a girl, we would have difficulty narrowing our options, but for a boy-- we are calling on you for help. This is your big chance to give out recommendations, and with as many opinionated friends as I have, I expect several people want to make their voices heard. Here are some basic rules to warn you what I/we will automatically strike down without further consideration:

1. TRENDY: Aiden, Kaden, Jaden, Jackson. If it has been anywhere near the top ten list over the last five years-- it just won't do.
2. Alliteration: We will not have the same initials in our first name as our last name.
3. In general we will be avoiding any names beginning with the letter B. Figure it out yourself.

For once in my life, I am open to suggestions, yes even yours mom, given they fit within the basic parameters established above. Come on, all you cyber stalkers out there who don't regularly comment, give it your best shot. Our posterity depends upon it.

And many of you may find this website of Utah baby names quite entertaining. If the name you recommend is located on this web page, we probably won't use it either.

Tuesday, March 04, 2008

Road Trip

We took another trip to Germany this weekend to visit the LDS Temple in Frankfurt where we were reminded that Germans, despite their shared border with the French have an entirely different culture--one that demands order and timeliness--at all costs.


Our friends Dave and Leslie joined us on this 6.5 hour adventure, crammed in the backseat with a demanding 2 year old who insisted that Leslie read to her, and draw for her, and count for her, and find her blanket (actually I think Dave ended up climbing into the back of the wagon for that one), and get her food, and had it been physically possible, do back flips and cartwheels. Since Leslie couldn't perform these physical acts, Ruby's well loved Kiki was put up to the task and even was dressed for the performance.


We also had a chance to visit World War I sites near Verdun. And while we like to believe we are history buffs, we were amazed at just how little we actually know about the battles and events surrounding this war. The original Battle of Verdun, that is, the one that took place between the Germans and the French before the Americans got involved, lasted for 10 months. According to one account, it resulted in the use of 60 million artillery shells, the deaths of 300,000 soldiers and wounding 450,000 more.

Our first stop was in the small town of Souilly, southwest of Verdun. Nate's grandfather (no-- I didn't forget to add "great" to that grandfather) was in the mounted military police, and was assigned to direct the military traffic in this small farming town, which operated as headquarters for both the French and the American military.



We often found ourselves stumbling upon huge monuments like the one below, completely unaware of their significance and purpose. Thankfully, we have since discovered more information on the internet.

This is L'Ossuarie de Douaumont, a 46 meter high "Tour de Morts", or tower of death. It is located on the hillside of the village which was completely destroyed during the war. The tower is shaped like an artillery shell and the tombs within the monument contain the remains of 130,000 unidentified soldiers.


La tranchée des baïonnettes, or bayonet trench, seemed like it would offer us the opportunity to precariously walk through the infamous trenches. Instead it was a monument, in memory of soldiers of the French 137th regiment. Historian Alistair Horne describes the events as follows,
It was not until after the war that French teams exploring the battlefield provided a clue as to the fate of 3 Company. The trench it had occupied was discovered completely filled in, but from a part of it at regular intervals protruded rifles, with bayonets still fixed to their twisted and rusty muzzles, On excavation, a corpse was found beneath each rifle. From that plus the testimony of survivors from nearby units, it was deduced that 3 Company had placed its rifles on the parapet ready to repel any attack and rather than abandon their trench had been buried alive by the German bombardment. When the story of the Tranche des Baionnettes was told it caught the world's imagination.

However, the actual events are the subject of great historical controversy. Today, crosses mark the locations where soldiers were found.




This picture illustrates the intense degree of bombardment that has left its permanent mark on the landscape. If you look closely you can see the numerous craters left by the artillery shells.


This is the American Memorial at Montfaucon, a 200 foot column, commemorating the American victory during the Meuse-Argonne offensive. A statue representing liberty stands at the top of this monument. One of the most famous stories of World War I is that of the 77th "Liberty" division from New York, most often referred to as the Lost Battalion. Of the 600 men who marched into this part of the Argonne forest only 200 walked out after five days of being trapped by enemy forces. If you are interested in more information on this battalion, I highly recommend checking out the movie of the same name starring Rick Schroeder.


Behind the memorial are the remains of a monastary, established in the 6th century, and finally shelled to ruins in the Battle of Montfaucon.



Finally, we visited the Meuse-Argonne American Cemetery, the largest American military cemetery in Europe with the graves of over 14,000 soldiers. Fighting took place all around the location of this cemetery, with the land where the graves now stand changing hands several times. After the war, the bodies of American soldiers were brought here from all over Europe. It even holds the remains of soldiers killed in Archangel, Russia, where American soldiers were sent to fight in the Russian civil war against the Bolsheviks (You mean you didn't cover this in your high school history class? Click here for a bit more on this VERY obscure little story). Sadly, with all this history waiting to be discovered, last year only 25,000 visitors came here, compared to the over 2 million that visited the cemetery in Normandy.

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Not Again!!

Apparently, my ethnic background is as physically non-descript as most "ethnic" disney characters (have you ever noticed that they all basically look white, but have almond shaped eyes or an olive complexion? Through out college people were always telling me I looked like whomever the most recent ethnic Disney "princess" was. First, I looked like Jasmine (always took this as a compliment!). Next it was Pocahontas, and finally Mulan. So basically, I look Indian, Native American, and Chinese.

My friend posted this quiz to her blog recently. When I took it, I had to laugh out loud.


You Are Pocahantas!
Image hosted by Photobucket.com

Free-spirited and wise. You have a strong passionate spirit that touches and changes all who know you. The wisdom and common sense that you have is really what guides you through life. Even so, you also have a very playful side that loves adventure and excitement.


Which Disney Princess Are You?

I guess no matter how much I spend on bleach and colored contacts, I am never going to be Cinderella!

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Nate & Ruby's European Vacation

Over Christmas we went to the Rhine Valley, Rothenburg-ob-der-Tauber, and Frankfurt Germany. And although the pictures seem to indicate it was a daddy/daughter vacation, we all had a great time. No one does Christmas as well as the Germans.





Wednesday, February 20, 2008

Cravings



I don't really crave a particular food item, but I do crave the chemically clean smells of detergent, clorox and recently Bounce dryer sheets. I don't use dryer sheets typically, opting for Downy for no other reason than habit. But recently, my friend Tara mentioned she craved the fresh scent of dryer sheets during her pregnancy. The mere suggestion was enough to sell me on the idea and as soon as I located a box of Bounce, I was on a hunt to find places to stash the sheets through out our house and car. So far I have sheets stuffed in our shoe basket, under couch cushions, discreetly taped on the wall behind curtains, in corners of every closet and drawer, in my purse, in the stroller, under bed sheets and pillow cases, and under the cover of Barkley's bed. The last effort I figured was great enough to share on the www.BounceEverywhere.com website that runs contests for new ways to use the dryer sheets. Visit this link and rate my story HIGH (100%) (you will need to look under the category "In the Home" for Sina in Dulles VA. Hopefully I can win whatever it is they are giving away. If you are at work, get your colleagues to vote as well.

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Happy Birthday Gramma

Here is Ruby's first video performance, especially created for her Gramma's birthday. Unfortunately, the camera operator didn't know you couldn't turn the device vertically when recording. Which means, you will have to view Ruby's cover of the classic "Tomorrow", from Annie, sideways. Special thanks to Aunt Daphne who provided Ruby with the music to this piece in addition to introducing her to her first tv crush, Daddy "Bucks".

Happy Birthday Gramma! With love, Ruby

In Bruges



Despite the less than stellar endorsement given by Collin Ferrel in his new movie, In Bruges, we decided to make a quick day trip to the historic city centre, which also happens to add an additional UNESCO World Heritage Site to our ever growing list. Tour books, in an attempt to be poetic, call it the Venice of the north and although Bruges is lovely, Venice it is not.




Every President's Day weekend we celebrate another year together--this is number five. We tried to find another tourist on the streets to take this picture for us, but had to resort to self portraits. Apparently Monday's in February aren't heavy tourist times in Bruges. The big question is, what happened to the makeup I applied that morning? Note to self: hit Sephora this week.



The obligatory photo of the clock tower.



Instead of climbing to the top for a reportedly spectacular view, we opted to stay in the local square and attempted to get a decent photo of a woman who is 7 months pregnant with her 27 month old. No small task, especially when we are still learning to use the camera. Herewith, the best attempts:


Saturday, February 16, 2008

So Much to See...So Little Time

I made a list today of places I have not yet explored in Paris that I absolutely must see before leaving. It is a daunting list, and some of the locations have obviously been put off just because I live here and can do it "anytime." These type of places include:

La Madeleine: I pass it nearly everyday, but have never gone inside.
Opera Garnier: again, always pass, never enter.
Les Passages: the covered shopping centers representing the wealth of the 19th century
Fauchon: Paris' most exclusive gourmet food store, centrally located and never entered
Pantheon: Most tourist get here, and somehow, I have avoided it.

Other places still to visit in Paris or Ile-de-France:
Grevin
Grand and Petit Palais
Musee des Arts Decoratifs
St. Roch
St. Eustache
St. Alexandre Nevsky
St. Severin
St. Germain-des-Pres (it is not just a neighborhood, but also a church)
St. Julien le Pauvre
St Etienne du Mont
St. Sulpice
St. Pierre du Montmartre
Mosquee de Paris
Au Lapin Agile
Chateau de Vincennes
Bois de Vincennes
Chateau de Malmaison
Chateau Rambouillet
Chateau de Dampierre
Chateau de Vaux le Vicomte
Institute du Monde Arabe

Books to read:
The Ladies' Delight- Emile Zola
Les Miserables- Victor Hugo
Something by Camus
Candide- Voltaire
A Moveable Feast- Ernest Hemingway
Le Petit Prince- IN FRENCH!
All Quiet on the Western Front- Erich Maria Remarque (German author, but I just don't know enough about WWI)
Tartuffe- Moliere
The Letters of Abelard and Heloise

Movies to watch:
400 Blows- Truffaut's groundbreaking classic
Band of Brothers- We currently have disc 2 at our house
Jeux Interdits- Renee Clement


And I still need to eat Fois Gras at least once. There are also flea markets and brocantes to be visited, shops and cafes, in addition to my favorite places that I just need to spend more time visiting.

Time to redirect my attention on this city I love.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Top Ten Tuesday: Things I Am Looking Forward to in Utah

10. Real milkshakes. As much as people try to make European ice cream seem exotic and therefore better, I just don't prefer it to a thick shake from any generic ice cream house in the States. Places I especially look forward to eating ice cream at however include: The Creamery, Aggie Ice Cream, and Granny's (in Heber City).

9. Stamp party with Shannon. I haven't done any stamping, ever. She loves it so much and always has such cute cards and crafts that I can't wait to spend a day with her drinking Diet Coke, eating tortilla chips and reese's peanut butter cookies, and just gleaning from her creative inspiration. It will be fun.

8. Letting relatives watch the little ones. It will be so great to have a list of people ready and willing to watch our kids so I can get out, or we can get out, or just because they love them and want to spend time with them while they can.

7. Going to the dollar movies.

6. Showing Ruby, in real life, the difference between a cow and horse up on the farms in Cache Valley. She doesn't get it right now. She will.

5. Free, relatively clean, abundant public restrooms.

4. Target

3. Suburban style shopping: wide aisles, shopping carts, food shops at the front where it isn't frowned upon for you to take the food with you while shopping, drinks in big cups filled to the rim with ice and free refills.

2. Crown Burger. Crown Burger. Crown Burger.

1. Paying for goods and services with the greenback. I am sick, sick, sick of the exchange rate here. We went to dinner tonight in lieu of paying the marked up price of dinner on Valentine's Day and still paid $75 for a dinner that would have cost $40 even on the East Coast.

Monday, February 11, 2008

The Wonderful Wizard of Oz

Over the last couple of weeks Ruby's new favorite show has become The Wizard of Oz. The moment she wakes up she asks, "Mama, watch witch?" She can often be caught singing "Because, because, because, because, because, because of the wonderful things he does!" And she loves pretending "I'm melting! Melting!" just like the witch.

Despite all the signs that she is clearly obsessed with this movie, I didn't catch on to how deep that obsession was running. She generally insists that she has to wear dresses, so when she began to insist she could only wear a blue one with polka dots, I just thought she was asserting her fashion independence. Finally, Nate caught her with her stuffed puppy, a basket and the blue dress. When we saw that she was also holding the Wizard of Oz DVD in her hands, with Dorothy right there on the cover wearing a blue dress with white polka dots, we realized she had put together her own Dorothy costume, complete with Toto too. We told her that her red glitter shoes were just like Dorothy's and would really bring the entire ensemble together. She didn't remove the shoes for 48 hours and now puts everything on before she will watch the movie.

Here she is, in full wardrobe:

Tuesday, February 05, 2008

Happy Super Tuesday

I won't be able to stay up long enough for the California returns this evening, so hopefully I will wake up to good news tomorrow.

A friend of mine sent me this link today which is the perfect video for Super Tuesday. The most surprising part of her clueing me into this link, is that she works at the Heritage Foundation. I love it and love that she sent it to me! And Shannon, while this is political, it may be something even you enjoy. Give it a try!

To all my friends and family in Utah today, this is your one chance to have a voice in Presidential politics. Get out and vote!! You don't have to be registered as a democrat to vote in the Utah democratic primaries.

Sunday, February 03, 2008

Hidden Treasures

In an effort to actually fulfill my New Year's Resolution and become that uber-organized individual I so desperately desire to become, I sorted the contents of boxes filled with random stuff collected over several moves (we have lived in three houses in our four years of marriage). I discovered we had six rolls of film to develop, which didn't surprise me too much since we haven't had a digital camera for some time (as I have often lamented on this very blog). I shipped the rolls of film off to Snapfish in order to complete yet another goal I had set (Ruby's baby book). When the film was finally posted and we were able to view them online we were more excited about the results than we ever imagined. It actually took us a while to determine exactly when the pictures were taken, only four pictures from the roll were developed, but they are truly treasures to us.




These pictures were taken during the Cherry Blossom festival in 2003, it was General Conference weekend and the first days of good weather for the spring. They are two of probably only five pictures we have from the time we were dating. And they are especially important to me because they are taken in the place where we ended up getting engaged.



This picture is taken just after Nate proposed to me. It is taken at a little Italian restaurant in Dupont Circle called Al Tiramisu. I had left my purse under my chair so we had to go back to pick it up, after he proposed at the Tidal Basin. When they found out we were engaged, like any good ma and pa business, everyone in the restaurant was part of the excitement. We didn't think we had any pictures taken the day we were engaged. We are so happy to have found these long lost pictures!

Friday, February 01, 2008

A Good Investment

Sina's had a long week and is worn out, and though she's still up, her usual razor wit and blogging acumen have already gone to bed. She wanted to post on this though, so I'll sub for her and I'm sure she'll make editorial comments over my shoulder.

Sometimes you see something and you instantly know it's going to be big. Imagine if you will seeing the first Uncle Sam poster calling out "I Want You", or stumbling upon Andy Warhol's Campbell's Soup photo by accident. While indulging in a little internet surfing Wednesday, Sina ran across these posters, done by an artist named Shepard Fairey. Mr. Fairey has taken a liking to Candidate Obama, and created these very, very limited edition prints, selling them for $50 a piece. When Sina found them, they had of course just sold out. Now two days later they are already selling on E-Bay for between $350 and $650 each. I suppose that could be considered a great return on an investment, but I'm pretty sure I couldn't have talked Sina into selling it once she got her hands on one. She thinks they're just stunning, and I have to agree.

Though we're far from November 4th, I'll go ahead and make a prediction. If Obama does indeed become President, these posters will become iconic images across the nation, and will be worth a fortune.


Monday, January 28, 2008

Round and Round

Someday, hopefully soon, I will be able to accompany my posts with actual pictures.

Neither Nate, nor I knew children's songs when Ruby was born. We usually sang her U2 or Counting Crows. There really aren't finger games or hand motions that go along well with All I Want Is You or Mr. Jones-- and in the end, most kids really respond to the kind of interaction found in songs like Itsy Bitsy Spider.

Earlier this year, I signed Ruby up for an English speaking music class with her favorite little friend. It has been fantastic! Once a week we walk a couple of blocks to her instructor's apartment to join about 10 other children and their mothers in singing and playing instruments. Ruby loves it!! She asks regularly to sing many of the songs and has all the hand motions memorized.

Without the pacifier, bedtime has started to require a replacement ritual, whereas before we could just place her in bed, stick her pacifier in her mouth, shut off the lights and close the door-- we have now been forced to discover a new way to help her calm herself before bed. We now sing all her favorites: Mr. Sun, the Wheels on the Bus, "Gong, Gong and Kinkle, Kinkle Star" as she calls them. Last night, she decided that Elmo needed to learn the songs. She took her Elmo and had him move to all the motions of the songs. We fell a little more in love with her. She went to bed quietly singing "Row, row, row your boat" with Elmo and seemed to have long forgotten the need for her pacifier.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

My New Obsession

www.blurb.com

This site has free downloadable software that can take your blog and turn it into a bookstore quality book. It goes a step beyond the photo books offered through iPhoto and Snapfish. I think this will help me achieve some of my New Year's Resolution's quite easily. All you bloggers out there should consider doing something similar on a yearly basis, since in theory our blogs are a bit of our personal history (formerly known as Books of Remembrance), who knew so many of us were actually enjoying that stuff these days!

Monday, January 21, 2008

Paris with Kids


I am always compiling lists of helpful reading materials for people planning a trip to the City of Lights. Ruby was sent a great Christmas gift this year from our friends Dan and Laura. While she is a bit young to really enjoy it, Nate and I loved this quick read and heartily recommend it to everyone.

The Invention of Hugo Cabaret, by Brian Selznik, is a book about dreams. Hugo is a young clock keeper in a large Parisian train station. Check it out at your local library, though the waiting list might be long. It recently won the Caldecott award for best illustrated youth literature.

Cinema-philes will love references to movies by Rene Clair and others, as well as rumors that Martin Scorcese is slated to direct the movie adaptation of this book.

Sunday, January 20, 2008

Bye Bye Paci



Ruby and her pacifier have a long history. She got her first hit off the hospital nurse after just a few hours of life. There are few pictures of her without, and those that exist--well you can be certain we pulled the plug just moments before snapping the memory (and then it was quickly returned to its proper place).

But, after an entire day of our toddler keeping us on our toes in search of the ever present addiction, we decided it was time to go cold turkey in giving the thing up. We did love the pacifier. It calmed her down, made her laugh, and sometimes even made us laugh. For example, since we can remember, se has insisted that the little handle be pressed up against her nose, creating the appearance of a bulls ring through her nostrils. Sometimes she would wander through the house calling "Paci, paci" until she found it hidden behind the crib or under a blanket.

Yesterday, the cute factor was obviously long gone. On our way out the door for a brief road trip to Belgium, we checked for the pacifier, which was no where to be found. Ruby pretended to help, but in the end she had actually hidden it. Then in the car she threw it when she was mad, lost it in the mound of toys. The fit that followed forced Nate to pull over to find it. It was tossed again. That was the moment that sealed her fate. We drove home without finding it. We went to bed that evening, eventually, with out it. We even made it through church, without it. Here is to 24 hours with out the Paci. It was a good friend, but we hope it doesn't come back to visit.